Be honest. You want to win, right? But how? Before you start an argument, remember this: Never fight about things that don’t really have one right answer. Favorite foods, bigger fears, stuff like that. These opinions can’t really be criticized, because they’re so personal. So don’t bother. Nobody can win (or lose) when there is no right answer.
During an argument, there are two words to avoid at all costs. Those words are “That’s stupid.” Don’t insult the other person. Show some respect for the other person’s point of view—or at least pretend to. You don’t want hurt feelings to get in the way of your win. You may feel frustrated inside, but remember to stay polite. This is called diplomacy.
What else is important? Well, take a good look at the other person’s argument. If possible, first find a way to admit that the other person’s argument has some good points. Just not enough of them for him to win. Then explain the problems. Break things down. And be specific. If you can’t, maybe you’re the one who is wrong. (Luckily, we know that’s impossible.)
Remember to be patient. Don’t talk too fast. Make sure you give the other person a chance to reply.
Always remember, too, that once you’ve won your argument, don’t rub it in. If you’re nice now, you will get a good reputation—for being kind and also for being fair. Creating good feelings will come in handy for winning more arguments in the future!
Activities:
1. Did you have any arguments before? How do you win an argument? Discuss with your learning partners.
2. Draw a picture to show two persons are arguing over their favorite foods.
3. An argument usually comes from disagreement. How do
you disagree with other people? Watch the video to learn about the Kid
President’s strategy. Do you agree with the Kid President?
